Back in the 1950s and 1960s when I was in grade school, only church schools and some private schools required uniforms, but there was an unwritten dress code in our community. I grew up in the Bible Belt and kids dressed like their parents told them to–cleanly, and above all, modestly. Back then, if a girl wore her dress or skirt (YES!–I did write dress or skirt–girls did not dare wear pants to school or anywhere else for that matter!) too short or her blouse too low-cut, she was sent home to change–no questions asked or needed. And guys–there was no way they would allow their jeans or slacks to sag!! Everyone would have inferred that they were homosexual or weird–to say the least! In other words, in our small town Texas community, we were all raised relatively the same–by middle class parents who had respect for the Bible and the church, and passed that respect along to their children. Our parents were not so involved in school activities–not any more or less than parents today. We were of the first generation whose mothers left home to work.
When I share my school stories with my students, it opens up quite a conversation. They cannot believe how we dressed. Many of the girls have stated that they’d have to stay home from school if they could only wear dresses. Yet when I explain that my generation hadn’t come to the place of women wearing pants, they become very sympathetic. Inevitably, our conversations turn to school uniforms and school dress codes. Frequently I have about half of the class say that they don’t mind wearing uniforms. They can get more sleep because the decision of what to wear to school has already been made. They sleep in a bit, jump up, shower, sling on their school uniforms, hopefully stop for some breakfast, and they’re on their way out the door.
The other half of the class still balks at having to wear uniforms to school, so they are all about finding ways to bend the rules without actually breaking them. If the dress codes calls for a black belt, they’ll come to school with a mostly black belt, and wait to see if anyone (teacher or principal) notices. If they happen to get away with that, the next day they’ll add something different–perhaps a different color t-shirt underneath the school shirt that stands out dramatically. Here is where one of the school uniform conflicts comes in–if the rules are not enforced to the letter, then students and parents alike get upset that one student or a small group of students is getting away with something. The first thing you know all of the students are wearing some variation of a uniform.
Whether your child’s school endorses uniforms or not, students must dress so that their clothes are not a distraction to the educational process. Research has shown that school uniforms have leveled the academic playing field, but as many parents are quick to point out, several changes were enacted in schools at the same time as uniforms. In either case, students should be able to focus on the lessons of the day and not on who’s wearing what!